Male Chastity and Why It’s Used
Male chastity is quickly becoming a very good way in which to train the focus of a submissive male. As we all know most men are somewhat obsessed with their penises. Not their fault really, it’s...
View ArticleCan Cuckolding Ruin a Marriage?
Of course it can if you’re not open. Here’s the best foundation to make cuckolding work in your relationship: It’s essential that each partner be honest and upfront about their feelings. There is no...
View ArticleAlpha Male – Beta Male
I get asked a lot about the difference between an alpha male (also known as a master, bull, dominant male, daddy, or real man among many other terms), and a beta male (also referred to as the sub male,...
View ArticleIs it Wise to Have Sex with Your Submissive?
Camilla asked this question in an email to me and I think it bears discussing. There is a lot of contradictory information out there regarding the subject of sex with submissives, and in this case I’m...
View ArticleWhat is a Ruined Orgasm and Why Would I Want One?
You probably don’t. LOL. Ruined orgasms are used in cuckolding and male control. It’s a way of draining the submissive without the pleasure of the orgasm. We’ve all had one at some time or other...
View ArticleSubmissive Guys Have Feelings Too
I spoke with Matt last week who is presently trying to find the right Dominant woman to serve in real time, not on the phone or in a Pro Domme capacity. His quest brings up a very important point...
View ArticleFetish – Nurture or Crush
Pat wrote in and brought up another really good point, he writes… …I thought of this while I read one of your posts on financial domination. You said if a guy has been ruined in a divorce, then he has...
View ArticleFluffing is Empowering
For those of you who don’t know what fluffing is I’ll explain that first. Fluffing is a term used in cuckolding where the submissive male usually sucks on the alpha/bull male to prepare/get him hard...
View ArticleCuckolding and Erectile Dysfunction
This came to my attention when a new client of mine came to me for advice on cuckolding but with a bit of a twist. He and his wife are faced with a medical problem that makes him impotent. He started...
View ArticleSubmissive or Sucker?
Are you submissive or are you just a sucker? In all fairness that’s a relative question. Relative because what some may view as a person being pushed around or bullied can in fact be something the...
View ArticleCan a Woman Respect a Sexually Submissive Partner?
Can a woman respect a sexually submissive partner? I get asked this quite often by men who are contemplating cuckolding and more specifically sucking cock in front of their partner. Don asked this...
View ArticleDoes Being a Cuckold Make Me Less of a Man?
Mike writes: “…Does it make me less of a man since I want to see my girlfriend take a big dick?” The answer to that question is going to be totally relative to whomever you’re speaking to and trying to...
View ArticleWhy Aren’t More Women into Cuckolding?
Originally Published in KinkEMag.com Just why there aren’t more women who are in to cuckolding isn’t an easy answer because everyone is different and the reasons can be multifaceted but here are a few...
View ArticleA Cautionary Cuckold Tale
Originally Published in KinkEMag.com As with anything there are pitfalls in cuckolding and I want to share with you a story of a client of mine who was taken down a road he wasn’t ready for. This is...
View ArticleHot Wife Syndrome
Originally Published in KinkEMag.com There’s a phrase and ideal in cuckolding that I don’t like and that’s, ‘hot wife.’ I know a lot of people in the online cuckolding forums and such volley the phrase...
View ArticleCommunication in Cuckolding
Originally Published in KinkEMag.com I used to say that cuckolding, along with any other alternative relationship, must have wide open lines of communication. But when I got to thinking about it, ALL...
View ArticleSelective Breeding in Cuckolding
Originally Published in KinkEMag.com I’ve spoken quite a bit about how popular cuckolding has become, albeit quietly popular, and within cuckolding itself there is a practice that is also gaining...
View ArticleThe Dirty Little Secret Going on in Your Neighbourhood
Originally Published in KinkEMag.com I consider the best part of my job as a counselor to be when I suggest couples make a few changes to an otherwise ‘written off’ relationship and then watch as...
View ArticleHow to Tell Your Wife You’re Interesting in Cuckolding Pt3
Well gentlemen if everything has been going right you should be having some serious fun. Let’s quickly re-cap what you’ve been able to accomplish so far: You should have built up her self-esteem by...
View ArticleHow to Tell Your Wife You’re Interested in Cuckolding Pt2
I certainly hope all you cucks-in-training did your homework from part one. If you did you should be noticing a change in your wife. She should be showing more signs of confidence and even being a...
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